I quite literally think I have the sweetest boyfriend ever.
No, seriously.
I asked him to make me a "goals" list - kind of like a mini-bucket list. He's slightly ADHD, so I never expected it to be long or really super thought out && hey, I was even shocked he agreed.
I'm not going to post his entire list, but a few things on it were:
- Finish college (software engineering).
- Work to pay for trips to visit Sara (hey, that's me!)
- Get married.
- Live in Germany for a few years.
- Retire to Paris with Sara.
I never knew he wanted to live in Germany. We'd talked about it for our honeymoon, but not as a residence. I also didn't know he wanted to retire to Paris. I'm going to get to travel!
Sometimes I feel really silly for thinking about the future. I have always very much had a here & now mentality. Something about him though has me having all these girly daydreams about life and what it could be like.
I have absolutely never been the type of girl to worry about month to month markers in a relationship. Saturday was Dalton and I's three months as an official "couple".
I never, ever planned any kind of "dream wedding" when I was growing up like all my friends.
I honestly didn't think anyone would want to marry me.
He tells me I'm beautiful when I wake up in the morning with my hair a million different directions and my eyeliner all smeared (or none at all). No one has ever done that.
When he says, "I want to marry you," - I actually believe him.
I did let it slip that I wanted a platinum ruby engagement ring, and unfortunately we both know he won't be able to afford that any time soon - but we did agree on a promise ring until then.
I absolutely can't wait to spend the week with him for my birthday.
P.S. - This is my blog, and this is definitely an entry more for me. I have no problem sharing it, but I know no one really cares. <3
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